“In Phillip’s profile, he described and expressed himself fairly clearly and close to who and what he really is. Initially, he is probably not the type I would go for. But after knowing him a bit more, the story is different. He delivers what he says and promises. I can see and feel that he makes the effort to plan the meet-up and make our meetings interesting and enjoyable. We are now meeting up regularly. We all know not to judge people by its cover, but sometime the dis-match of your own idea of “the one” can get in the way for preventing you to know the person better. From the experience of meeting Phillip, I have learned that I should open up a bit more and allow this friendship/relationship to grow at its own pace.”